X and Fluxbox :: fvwm

I need to convert my friends to linux. So, it's nice to make it look like windows. That's it.

in the usr/local/lib/x11/mini-icons file there is an icon that corresponds with that logo you can change it with a paint program ie the gimp.

I just ap-getted fvwm98 but I dont know what to edit to get it to boot to fvwm instead of fluxbox. Any help would be much appreciated.

Thanks

/home/dsl/.xinitrc

Please forgive my ignorance of linux, But where does apt-get put the fvwm95 files I need to direct to in home/dsl/.xinitrc?

Thanks